Illnesses are not easy to deal with, nor do they simply go away again. Therefore, it is perfectly natural that they trigger strong feelings in us. But if we have dealt with them intensively enough for a while, they should then go away. A problem rather arises when we avoid them because, for example, we do not want to consciously deal with an illness, but think it is better not to think about it at all.
Unfortunately, this does not work at all, the problem is not solved, the obvious strategy of not wanting to think about it is no good. Because as we should know since Sigmund Freud's times, our soul has an unconscious part. And in it, emotional issues that we don't want to get to, that we push away, put in the basement, so to speak, continue to work. They don't give you any peace, which you notice, for example, when you no longer sleep well, but wake up around three or four in the night and brood. Brooding means that your thoughts get stuck on a point that worries you, taking up more and more space until you are really desperate and don't know what to do. It also wears us down when we can't sleep. Brooding never leads to a solution. That's why it would be better if we could just let it go. However, this usually does not work, but when this symptom returns in many nights, it is often the beginning of depression.